Do t\u00eb ishte e d\u00ebmshme n\u00ebse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt diskutojn\u00eb mes tyre ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar nga m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb ose nga televizori, sidomos pamjet apo lajmet e frikshme me skena makabre<\/p>\n
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Esht\u00eb e domosdoshme q\u00eb gjat\u00eb ndjekjes s\u00eb lajme n\u00eb televizor, pran\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb i rritur, i cili t\u00eb jet\u00eb i gatsh\u00ebm t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjet pyetjeve q\u00eb mund t\u2019i linin f\u00ebmij\u00ebs gjat\u00eb d\u00ebgjimit t\u00eb lajmeve.<\/p>\n
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E gjith\u00eb familja \u00ebsht\u00eb ulur n\u00eb sallon. Ndizet televizori. Lajmet e dit\u00ebs transmetojn\u00eb imazhe dhune dhe terrori. Edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt shikojn\u00eb. Mos i lini kurr\u00eb vet\u00ebm!<\/p>\n
Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb ulur rreth tavolin\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb ora e dark\u00ebs. Si gjithmon\u00eb babi do shikoj\u00eb lajmet. S\u2019ka kukulla me kartona, s\u2019ka emisione p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb, s\u2019ka muzik\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb or\u00eb ka vet\u00ebm lajme. Pas sigl\u00ebs q\u00eb lajm\u00ebron fillimin e edicionit t\u00eb dark\u00ebs, spikerja fillon nj\u00eb e nga nj\u00eb me lajmet. E gjith\u00eb familja qet\u00ebsi! Edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt!<\/p>\n
\u201cNj\u00eb baba q\u00ebllon t\u00eb birin 7-vje\u00e7ar p\u00ebr vdekje, p\u00ebr t\u2019u hakmarr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shoqen e cila e braktisi para tre dit\u00ebsh\u201d; \u201c250 persona u vran\u00eb dje n\u00eb Irak si pasoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb shp\u00ebrthimi minash. Nd\u00ebr t\u00eb vrar\u00ebt edhe 37 f\u00ebmij\u00eb\u201d; \u201cTjet\u00ebr aksidente ajror. 70 t\u00eb vdekur dhe 37 t\u00eb humbur \u00ebsht\u00eb bilanci i rr\u00ebzimit t\u00eb avionit amerikan dje n\u00eb brigjet e Paq\u00ebsorit, si pasoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb defekti n\u00eb nj\u00ebrin prej motor\u00ebve\u201d…<\/p>\n
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Informacione, q\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rriturit, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt e kan\u00eb t\u00eb st\u00ebrvitur d\u00ebgjimin me aksidente, vrasje, t\u00eb humbur e t\u00eb mbytur, jan\u00eb m\u00ebse t\u00eb d\u00ebgjueshme. P\u00ebr ta, lajme t\u00eb tilla do t\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebnin gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb normale n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Por nuk vlen e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt mund t\u00eb turbullohen jo vet\u00ebm sepse jan\u00eb duke d\u00ebgjuar p\u00ebr kaq e aq t\u00eb vrar\u00eb apo t\u00eb aksidentuar, por mbi t\u00eb gjitha sepse imazhet q\u00eb transmetohen n\u00eb ekran mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb tek ta trauma t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta psikologjike.<\/p>\n
E megjithat\u00eb, sipas disa statistikave, mendohet se edicioni lajmeve \u00ebsht\u00eb programi m\u00eb i ndjekur dhe m\u00eb pak i censuruar n\u00ebp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpit\u00eb e evropian\u00ebve. Prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebrpiqen aq shum\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mbrojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre nga filmat me skena dhune, kontrollojn\u00eb me kujdes programet q\u00eb ata ndjekin n\u00eb televizor. Madje edhe vet\u00eb mediat vendosin n\u00eb ekran simbole treguese me mosh\u00ebn p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb aksh program televiziv, duke paralajm\u00ebruar se ky apo ai film nuk lejohet p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00ebn mosh\u00ebn 16 vje\u00e7. Por as kujdesi i prind\u00ebrve dhe as ai i mediave nuk vlen kur vjen puna tek lajmet. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb t\u2019i shohin f\u00ebmij\u00eb e t\u00eb rritur.<\/p>\n
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Si t\u00eb mbrosh nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nga informacionet shum\u00eb t\u00eb ashpra dhe direkte, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb p\u00ebr keq n\u00eb gjendjen e tyre shpirt\u00ebrore?<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb informohen dhe t\u00eb din\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Kjo i ndihmon t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb dijeni t\u00eb realitetit dhe mbi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb sh\u00ebrben si material p\u00ebr zhvillimin e tyre. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme q\u00eb gjat\u00eb ndjekjes s\u00eb lajme n\u00eb televizor, pran\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb i rritur, i cili t\u00eb jet\u00eb i gatsh\u00ebm t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjet pyetjeve q\u00eb mund t\u2019i linin f\u00ebmij\u00ebs gjat\u00eb d\u00ebgjimit t\u00eb lajmeve, edhe t\u2019i sqarojn\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do lajm aspak etik q\u00eb mund t\u00eb transmetohet. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb prindi mund t\u00eb qet\u00ebsoj\u00eb edhe frik\u00ebrat q\u00eb mund t\u2019i lindin f\u00ebmij\u00ebs gjat\u00eb ndonj\u00eb imazhi q\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte i tepruar p\u00ebr syrin e nj\u00eb tij. Nuk ka asnj\u00eb eveniment apo ngjarje q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb diskutohet me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00ebse ata jan\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn \u00a0e fillimit t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs. Ata mund t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit u shpjegojn\u00eb. Do t\u00eb ishte e d\u00ebmshme n\u00ebse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt diskutojn\u00eb mes tyre ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar nga m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb ose nga televizori, sidomos pamjet apo lajmet e frikshme me skena makabre. Prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme q\u00eb t\u2019i sqarosh \u2013edhe kur ata nuk ta k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb- p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt shohin e d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb, por sidomos p\u00ebr ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb k\u00ebqija dhe t\u00eb paperceptueshme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n
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\u00cbsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt sidomos p\u00ebr ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ata mund t\u2019i trembin. Prind\u00ebrit asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u2019i njohin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre me realitetin, sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb ai. Ata duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr faktin q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u2019i ruash nga informacione q\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00e7ojn\u00eb dhun\u00eb dhe skena t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshtatshme. Do t\u00eb ishte e palogjikshme q\u00eb ta ndalosh nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb shoh\u00eb edicionet e lajmeve, me t\u00eb cilat ekranet jan\u00eb deri n\u00eb gryk\u00eb nga m\u00ebngjesi deri n\u00eb dark\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u2019u shpjegosh gjith\u00e7ka, pasi mbi t\u00eb gjitha televizioni \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb instrument shum\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, sepse u m\u00ebson atyre se si t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb dallimin nga historit\u00eb e sajuara t\u00eb filmave apo t\u00eb kukullave me kartona, n\u00eb ato t\u00eb bot\u00ebs reale t\u00eb treguara sidomos nga lajmet. K\u00ebshtu shpjegojn\u00eb sociolog\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
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Prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb tregohen t\u00eb v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn\u00a0 t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb distancimin nga ajo q\u00eb shohin n\u00eb televizor. N\u00eb pak minuta, emisioni i lajmeve \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb servir\u00eb nj\u00eb informacion t\u00eb bollsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ndodh jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb, por edhe p\u00ebr ngjarjet n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha planetin. Dhe p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, sidomos p\u00ebr ata m\u00eb t\u00eb vegjlit, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ndodh larg dhe \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo tjetra q\u00eb ndodh pran\u00eb tij dhe mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebj\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnim dhe p\u00ebr at\u00eb vet\u00eb. Ja pse \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb rriturit t\u2019u shpjegojn\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00eblve me fjal\u00eb siguruese dhe t\u00eb qarta se ajo lufta dhe ata t\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e vdekur q\u00eb ata sapo kan\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb televizion, kan\u00eb ndodhur shum\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb larg sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb tij dhe q\u00eb nuk asnj\u00eb rrezik q\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb k\u00ebqijt\u00eb\u201d t\u00eb vijn\u00eb deri k\u00ebtu. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb dij\u00eb t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb mir\u00eb koh\u00ebn dhe vendin se kur dhe ku kan\u00eb ndodhur pamjet q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb duke par\u00eb n\u00eb ekran.<\/p>\n
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