{"id":1717,"date":"2006-10-17T14:05:03","date_gmt":"2006-10-17T12:05:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psikologjia.com\/?p=13"},"modified":"2006-10-17T14:05:03","modified_gmt":"2006-10-17T12:05:03","slug":"si-ta-mpotshesh-lodhjen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psikologjia.com\/wordpress2\/keshilla\/si-ta-mpotshesh-lodhjen\/","title":{"rendered":"Si ta mpotsh\u00ebsh lodhjen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>T&euml; lodhur dhe n&euml; pamund&euml;si p&euml;r t&euml; marr&euml; veten? Nuk &euml;sht&euml; gjithmon&euml; faji i stresit. Ja disa k&euml;shilla q&euml; fillojn&euml; me veshjet, ushqimin dhe l&euml;vizjen.<br \/><!--more--><\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Tashm&euml; mund t&euml; dor&euml;zohemi: gjumi nuk na shqitet, fundjava nuk arrin ta mposht&euml; lodhjen, r&euml;ndesa mendore dhe fizike nuk na leht&euml;sohet, &ccedil;far&euml;dolloj autoterapie t&euml; p&euml;rpiqemi t&euml; b&euml;jm&euml;. Shkenca na siguron: ky &euml;sht&euml; stres. Ose sipas hipotez&euml;s edhe m&euml; shqet&euml;suese, b&euml;het fjal&euml;&nbsp; p&euml;r lodhje kronike, nj&euml; nga sindromat m&euml; t&euml; p&euml;rhapura n&euml; Per&euml;ndim, por s&euml; cil&euml;s ende nuk i dihen shkaqet, nd&euml;rsa mjek&euml;t nuk jan&euml; ende t&euml; sigurt p&euml;r kurat. <\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Dhe nd&euml;rkoh&euml; q&euml; mjekimi pritet t&euml; gjendet, e vetmja gj&euml; me t&euml; cil&euml;n n&euml; Per&euml;ndim po p&euml;rballohet ky shqet&euml;sim, jan&euml; seancat e meditimit apo t&euml; jog&euml;s, p&euml;rpara se t&euml; mendohet p&euml;r t&euml; bler&euml; qet&euml;sues n&euml;p&euml;r farmaci. E megjithat&euml;, di&ccedil;ka edhe mund t&euml; b&euml;het: t&euml; rikuperojm&euml; rezerv&euml;n energjetike q&euml; kemi mbledhur n&euml; pjes&euml;n e djatht&euml; t&euml; trurit, n&euml; zon&euml;n q&euml; p&euml;rgjigjet p&euml;r emocionet, e cila lihet n&euml; vend t&euml; dyt&euml; p&euml;r shkak t&euml; inteligjenc&euml;s racionale. Dhe pik&euml;risht n&euml; k&euml;t&euml; zon&euml;, t&euml; mbetur disi n&euml; hije, gjendet p&euml;rgjigjja instiktive ndaj v&euml;shtir&euml;sive. Ta p&euml;rplot&euml;sosh k&euml;t&euml; zon&euml;, do t&euml; thot&euml;&nbsp; t&euml; zbulosh m&euml; shum&euml; burime, pra me pak fjal&euml;, t&euml; ndjehesh m&euml; mir&euml;. Po si mund t&euml; arrihet&nbsp; kjo? P&euml;r mjek&euml;t psikolog&euml;, kjo &euml;sht&euml; di&ccedil;ka q&euml; mund t&euml; b&euml;het. Sipas tyre, ka disa lloj sjelljesh q&euml; mund t&euml; duken fare t&euml; r&euml;ndomta, por q&euml; jan&euml; mjaft t&euml; efektshme, q&euml; arrijn&euml; t&euml; fusin n&euml; pun&euml; pik&euml;risht at&euml; zon&euml; t&euml; trurit q&euml; u p&euml;rgjigjet emocioneve. Ja disa prej k&euml;tyre m&euml;nyrave.<\/p>\n<h5>Hapni syt&euml; <\/h5>\n<p align=\"justify\">Tring&euml;llin zilja e or&euml;s: jeni nga ata q&euml; &#8230;. edhe pes&euml; minuta? At&euml;her&euml; sipas mjek&euml;ve, le t&rsquo;i p&euml;rdorim k&euml;to minuta p&euml;r t&euml; hyr&euml; n&euml; kontakt me dit&euml;n e re, duke marr&euml; frym&euml; dal&euml;ngadal&euml;: k&euml;shtu perceptojm&euml; trupin, riaktivizojm&euml; energjin&euml; dhe mund t&euml; p&euml;rfitojm&euml; ritmin e p&euml;rditsh&euml;m psikofizik. Duhet ta dim&euml; q&euml; kurdo q&euml; ta kemi programuar zilen e or&euml;s, zgjimi i trupit fillon diku rreth or&euml;s kat&euml;r t&euml; m&euml;ngjesit, at&euml;her&euml; kur GH, hormoni i rritjes i prodhuar nga truri, fillon t&euml; shp&euml;rhapet n&euml;p&euml;r trup, duke i stimuluar gj&euml;ndrat mbiveshkore t&euml; prodhojn&euml; kortizonin, (hormoni i zgjimit). Presioni rritet dhe na v&euml; n&euml; l&euml;vizje. Pastaj vjen ngritja, kalohet nga shtrati p&euml;r n&euml; tualet, nga dollapi n&euml; kuzhin&euml; p&euml;r t&euml; ngr&euml;n&euml; m&euml;ngjesin (edhe pse ndoshta jo me k&euml;t&euml; rend veprimesh), praktika t&euml; p&euml;rditshme q&euml; i b&euml;jm&euml; n&euml; m&euml;nyr&euml; automatike. Por n&euml; fakt ky &euml;sht&euml; edhe momenti ideal i t&euml; ndjerit mir&euml; me vetveten, momenti q&euml; ndikon ndoshta m&euml; shum&euml; n&euml; vazhdimin e dit&euml;s. Ve&ccedil;an&euml;risht momenti kur jemi vet&euml;m n&euml; banj&euml;. K&euml;to jan&euml; minuta t&euml; &ccedil;mueshme: n&euml;se do t&rsquo;ia v&euml;m&euml; veshin efektit mir&euml;b&euml;r&euml;s q&euml; ka tek ne &ccedil;do gjest sado i vog&euml;l q&euml; i kushtohet kujdesit m&euml;ngjesor, at&euml;her&euml; do t&euml; kuptojm&euml; se pik&euml;risht k&euml;tu &euml;sht&euml; vendi i duhur p&euml;r t&euml; &ldquo;peshkuar&rdquo; energjin&euml; e nevojshme. <\/p>\n<h5>&Ccedil;&rsquo;ngjyr&euml; t&euml; p&euml;lqen? <\/h5>\n<p align=\"justify\">Edhe zgjedhja e veshjes nuk &euml;sht&euml; dhe aq rast&euml;sore, ka gjithmon&euml; t&euml; b&euml;j&euml; me humorin ton&euml; t&euml; momentit. Veshja &euml;sht&euml; l&euml;kura jon&euml; e dyt&euml;. Prandaj &euml;sht&euml; gabim i madh q&euml; t&euml; b&euml;sh gati q&euml; nj&euml; nat&euml; p&euml;rpara veshjen e s&euml; nes&euml;rmes, &euml;sht&euml; m&euml; mir&euml; ta kuptosh n&euml; m&euml;ngjes at&euml; q&euml; t&euml; b&euml;n t&euml; ndihesh mir&euml;. Dhe k&euml;tu ngjyra ka r&euml;nd&euml;si t&euml; dor&euml;s s&euml; par&euml;, sepse &euml;sht&euml; pik&euml;risht ajo q&euml; shpreh ndryshueshm&euml;rit&euml; q&euml; syri i percepton p&euml;r t&rsquo;ia transmetuar pjes&euml;s s&euml; djatht&euml; t&euml; trurit. <\/p>\n<h5>Karburanti <\/h5>\n<p align=\"justify\">Esht&euml; mjaft i p&euml;rhapur mendimi se kafeja &euml;sht&euml; benzina q&euml; i jep ritmin e duhur dit&euml;s. Por mjek&euml;t nuk ndajn&euml; t&euml; nj&euml;jtin mendim. Sepse kafeina, ashtu si dhe teina, jan&euml; p&euml;rb&euml;r&euml;s q&euml; rrisin tensionin arterial, por nuk e v&euml;n&euml; n&euml; veprim pomp&euml;n e zemr&euml;s n&euml; at&euml; m&euml;nyr&euml; q&euml; mendohej. Nuk ekziston ndonj&euml; m&euml;ngjes q&euml; t&euml; mund t&euml; quhej ideali, por n&euml; vend t&euml; kafes&euml; nj&euml; efekt tonik m&euml; t&euml; mir&euml; mund ta jepte kripa, e cila me klorin dhe sod&euml;n rregullojn&euml; osmoz&euml;n e gjakut. Dhe kur d&euml;gjoni fjal&euml;n krip&euml;, nuk keni pse t&rsquo;ju kap&euml; paniku: jan&euml; mjaft t&euml; p&euml;rshtatsh&euml;m <em>corn-flakes<\/em>-at, nj&euml; tas i till&euml; ka po aq sod&euml; sa nj&euml; qese me patatina. Por nuk duhet t&euml; harrojm&euml; edhe nj&euml; tjet&euml;r gj&euml; t&euml; r&euml;nd&euml;sishme: energjia ushqehet nga ndryshimet. N&euml;se &ccedil;do m&euml;ngjes marrim t&euml; nj&euml;jt&euml;n meny, nuk &euml;sht&euml; &ccedil;udi q&euml; ajo t&euml; mos vazhdoj&euml; t&euml; ket&euml; t&euml; nj&euml;jtin efekt. Nj&euml; ndryshim i her&euml;pashersh&euml;m do t&euml; ishte i k&euml;shilluesh&euml;m. <\/p>\n<h5>Bota e jashtme <\/h5>\n<p align=\"justify\">Nj&euml; tjet&euml;r metod&euml; q&euml; vlen edhe p&euml;r rrug&euml;n sht&euml;pi &ndash; pun&euml; &ndash; sht&euml;pi: Ndryshimi i her&euml;pashersh&euml;m i rrug&euml;s stimulon shikimin &nbsp;dhe d&euml;gjimin, dy nga motor&euml;t e energjis&euml; q&euml; nuk duhen l&euml;n&euml; kurr&euml; t&euml; shkarkohen. Por zakonisht kemi edhe nj&euml; tjet&euml;r ves: nd&euml;rsa ecim rrug&euml;s p&euml;r n&euml; pun&euml; mendojm&euml; p&euml;r gj&euml;rat q&euml; na presin n&euml; zyr&euml;&#8230; Mjek&euml;t na k&euml;shillojn&euml; q&euml; k&euml;t&euml; nuk duhet ta b&euml;jm&euml; kurr&euml;, sepse duke menduar p&euml;r detyrat q&euml; na presin, rrezikojm&euml; t&euml; arrijm&euml; t&euml; lodhur. Prandaj &euml;sht&euml; mir&euml; q&euml; ta heqim mendjen duke d&euml;gjuar muzik&euml; n&euml; kasetofonin e makin&euml;s apo edhe me kufje n&euml; vesh kur jemi n&euml; k&euml;mb&euml;. Ose duke ecur, mund t&euml; &ccedil;lodhemi duke par&euml; rreth e rrotull. <\/p>\n<h5>Ndiqni pikun <\/h5>\n<p align=\"justify\">T&euml; d&euml;gjosh instiktin, do t&euml; thot&euml; t&euml; merresh me zbulimin e nevojave m&euml; t&euml; thella. Edhe n&euml; zyr&euml;. K&euml;shtu mund t&euml; zbulojm&euml; q&euml; n&euml; harkun e nj&euml; dite ekziston nj&euml; pik i energjis&euml; maksimale. Ka nga ata njer&euml;z q&euml; ndihen n&euml; maksimumin e form&euml;s q&euml; her&euml;t n&euml; m&euml;ngjes, t&euml; tjer&euml; akoma n&euml; or&euml;t e vona t&euml; pasdites, dikush tjet&euml;r nat&euml;n. Duke zbuluar pik&euml;risht k&euml;t&euml; pik&euml; kur energjia jon&euml; &euml;sht&euml; n&euml; maksimum, mund t&euml; programojm&euml; q&euml; pun&euml;t m&euml; t&euml; koklavitura, takimet m&euml; t&euml; r&euml;nd&euml;sishme, provat apo sfidat t&rsquo;i<br \/>\nb&euml;jm&euml; pik&euml;risht n&euml; k&euml;t&euml; koh&euml;. Dhe nj&euml; tjet&euml;r sekret: N&euml;se n&euml; nj&euml; far&euml; pike, nd&euml;rsa je i p&euml;rqendruar n&euml; pun&euml;, fillon t&euml; ndjesh m&euml;rzi, &euml;sht&euml; e nevojshme ta nd&euml;rpres&euml;sh p&euml;r disa minuta, t&euml; marr&euml;sh frym&euml; dhe ta spostosh v&euml;mendjen drejt di&ccedil;kaje tjet&euml;r. Ndoshta edhe tek muri p&euml;rball&euml;. <\/p>\n<h5>Nga dashuria tek &euml;ndrrat <\/h5>\n<p align=\"justify\">Nj&euml; botim mjaft serioz si British Medical Journal ka zbuluar se 53 p&euml;r qind e meshkujve dhe 58 p&euml;r qind e femrave evropiane, nuk b&euml;jn&euml; seks pik&euml;risht p&euml;r faj t&euml; stresit. Por edhe p&euml;r shkak t&euml; dembelizmit. E megjithat&euml;, t&euml; b&euml;rit dashuri shpie n&euml; maksimumin e karikimit t&euml; energjis&euml;. <\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Por nga ana tjet&euml;r, edhe gjumi ka veti mir&euml;b&euml;r&euml;se. Dhe sidomos pjesa e tij me &euml;ndrra, t&euml; cilat luajn&euml; rolin kryesor n&euml; eliminimin e skarcove t&euml; mendjes: shkarkojn&euml; tensionet e dit&euml;s. Esht&euml; nj&euml;soj sikur t&euml; pastronim <em>hard-disk<\/em> -un e mendjes son&euml; nga t&euml; gjitha <em>file<\/em>-t q&euml; nuk na nevojiten m&euml;.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">________________________________<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\"><em>marr&euml; nga revista jeta<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T&euml; lodhur dhe n&euml; pamund&euml;si p&euml;r t&euml; marr&euml; veten? Nuk &euml;sht&euml; gjithmon&euml; faji i stresit. 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